Marian Longstreth Thayer (1872–1944)
Marian Longstreth Thayer was born on November 9, 1872, in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, into a well-established Quaker family. In 1892, she married John Borland Thayer II, a prominent railroad executive and vice president of the Pennsylvania Railroad. The couple lived near Philadelphia and had four children, including their son, John “Jack” Thayer III.
In April 1912, the Thayers boarded the RMS Titanic as first-class passengers for the ship’s maiden voyage, accompanied by their younger son Jack and Marian’s maid, Margaret Fleming. When the ship struck the iceberg, Marian, Jack, and Fleming were placed into a lifeboat and survived. Her husband, John Borland Thayer II, remained on board and was among those who perished.
After the disaster, Marian spoke about the evacuation and the conduct of both crew and passengers during the sinking, offering a calm and factual account of the tragedy. Following her return home to their estate, “Redwood,” in Haverford, Pennsylvania, she resumed a private yet socially active life.
In the years after the sinking, she publicly expressed gratitude to Captain Arthur Rostron of the Carpathia and to fellow survivors who assisted during the rescue. The Thayer family remained connected to the public memory of the Titanic through later statements made by her son, Jack Thayer, who became one of the best-known eyewitnesses to the tragedy.
Marian Longstreth Thayer died at her home, “Redwood,” in Haverford, Pennsylvania, on April 14, 1944 — the 32nd anniversary of the Titanic disaster.